Monday, March 05, 2012

Lent Read #13: SWEET MOON BABY: An Adoption Tale by Karen Henry Clark


"Was it something I did?"

"Is something wrong with me?"

A child who is adopted asks questions, some aloud and some in secret, about why she doesn't find herself with her birth family. In SWEET MOON BABY (Knopf), a peaceful picture book by Karen Henry Clark, illustrated by Patrice Barton, the text starts with a clear declaration about the worth of the child: "One summer night in China, a baby girl was born. She was perfect."

Next, in a tribute that's rarely found in books dealing with adoption, Clark and Barton devote two full spreads to the child's birth parents. They are both "happy and sad," acknowledging the difficult gains and losses of adoption for a family unable to keep a child. A wise reader will pause, let the child's eyes dwell on the loving hands tucking the baby into a basket, and wait for questions.

If none come, we move on, reading and seeing the miracle of protection through the baby's wait for a family, and the growing love and desire of the waiting parents (also "happy and sad," as are most people waiting for babies through adoption.)

With each quiet spread, the reader and hearer of the story are given space and grace to comment, notice, and question—a key part of healing in the adoption journey. Through this soft, loving story the child grasps the fact that for her, too, the adoption experience is allowed to be both "happy and sad."


3 comments:

Michelle Cusolito said...

This is a new title to me- I can't wait to read it. Just reserved it from my library.

If adoption is important to anyone reading this, I encourage you to read my friend Alison's blog. She was adopted as an infant and now parents 4 children: 2 biological and 2 adopted. She's blogs about adoption and has won several blog awards (from Adoptive Families magazine etc).
http://theyreallmyown.blogspot.com/

Lisa said...

My baby was my gift to the world to show everyone strength in purity and simplicity, and one day I pray my baby will come home to me to tell me of his journey that I can take with him.Parents

Candice Johnson said...

It seems like a lovely book. I will definitely read it because it's exactly what I need. We are planning on becoming a foster parent bristol and this would be very useful for us. One of my fear in adopting is how and when to tell the child the truth. I'm afraid that when he or she starts asking questions, my answers won't be enough.

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