Fifty years ago my parents saw each other for the first time. Yes, they had an arranged marriage. To celebrate today, they watched "The Notebook" together (my sister's idea), and Ma cooked egg curry and luchis at Baba's request. She told me on the phone that they laughed and reminisced and wept and kissed. So here's the bottom line: It's not about how you GET married, it's about how you STAY married. Hooray for Ma and Baba!